Comparing child-rearing practices

(from Lareau’s Unequal Childhoods)


Child-rearing practices

 

‘Concerted cultivation’

Key elements

Parent actively fosters and assesses child’s talents, opinions, and skills

Organization of daily life

Multiple child leisure activities orchestrated by adults

Language use

Reasoning/directives

Child contestation of adult statements

Extended negotiations between parents and child

Interventions in institutions

Criticisms and interventions on behalf of child

Training of child to take on this role

Consequences

Emerging sense of entitlement on the part of the child

Time and money

Money may rarely be discussed (but is usually available when needed);

Attending events parent/teacher conferences, etc., and getting off work

Annette Lareau. 2012. Unequal Childhoods (2nd edition). Berkeley: University of California Press.